Category Archives: Ace

Gift giving: How it does and does not work as a love language for me

Posted on April 30, 2019 by Controlled Abandon

I find the idea of love languages to be really interesting, and have wanted to learn more about them, but have mostly shied away from doing so, because romance repulsion. So this Carnival of Aces provided a really good opportunity … Continue reading →

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Carnival of Aces Call for Submissions: Symbols of Identity

Posted on March 1, 2019 by Controlled Abandon

This is the call for submissions for the March 2019 Carnival of Aces. You can find out more about the Carnival of Aces in The Asexual Agenda’s masterpost here. The topic I have chosen is “symbols of identity.” This includes … Continue reading →

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Musings on Labels

Posted on August 14, 2018 by Controlled Abandon

I’ve been thinking about labels lately, and it seems to me that we have three categories of labels in the asexual community: type of attraction, who we’re attracted to, and how the attraction works. Some labels fit more than one … Continue reading →

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